Fully get your angle too Drone. Still, can't quell optimism.
Staying on point, you rarely ever see toxicity in 1v1 or teams MM. Casual teams and FFA - this is the problem zone.
New players join the same huge game as the older players, the older players flip because they got handicapped, everyone has a worse time and toxicity proliferates.
Well, here's a super simple idea for anyone who feels frustrated: Take your other serious mates into a different lobby and stop playing 26 player shitstorms with people you never wanted to play with in the first place. Noobs won't get stomped, storages won't get built, everyone will have a better time.
The lobster pot is a trap where you all boil together.