Ok, ive managed to find some useful info in the 'ingame command window' thing, it says ...
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-could not load mod and/or general config file. For further info see config file under: ./spring/AI/Skirmish/AAI/0.9/log/AAI_log_team_0.txt
-Warning: AI for team 0 (ID 0) failed handling event with topic1, error:1
-Skirmish AI "Bot1" (ID:), which controlled team 0 is now dead
-Game 0ver: Destroying alliance 1
-Team 0 is no more
-Team 0 wins!
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if a commander is selected it exits, if i do nothing it exits after a few seconds. I think it was joking about canceling aut0quit
I am at a total loss how to solve this or even why it is happening :(
ive changed certain words in this post as the server thinks they are dangerous